The woman Madi Brooks also admitted that her sister sometimes ‘plays’ with her husband as well.
It might not be for everyone, but swinger relationships are not as uncommon as one would think. Madi Brooks, who goes by @madibrooks567 on TikTok, shares details of her swinger lifestyle with many followers on the platform. While she lives with her husband in the US, she admits that she and her mother both swing and will often switch partners at events. In fact, she's quite happy to let her mom sleep with her husband if she's not in the mood, reports The Sun. In one video that has amassed over 8 million views, she says, “Me and my mom are both swingers and it’s great, you know why? Because when I’m not in the mood I can just let my husband have her. Yeah, I’m that kind of wife. I let my husband have her a couple of times a week.” She also admits that her sister sometimes ‘plays’ with her husband. She adds, “You wanna know how I keep my man happy? I let him play with my little sister.”
TikTok swinger reveals that she lets her husband and mother have sex https://t.co/7JBDsDZ2Bt— The Independent (@Independent) October 5, 2021
Not everyone can grasp the concept of swinging. After viewing Madi's video, one person said, “That’s enough TikTok for one year, I’m out!” Another wondered, “How did that conversation ever initiate?” And a third wrote, “I don’t know how anybody could share but it’s your life.” So what exactly is swinging? According to InStyle, Amy Baldwin, sex educator, sex and relationship coach, and co-host of the Shameless Sex Podcast says that a swinger is usually married and/or heterosexual. They are in a committed relationship and are open to engaging in sexual activity with other people. They also aim to have a shared experience with their partner. "Some form of a non-monogamous relationship dynamic might be for you if the idea of being intimate with more than one partner excites you," says Baldwin. "Some folks choose it to spice up their current partnership with newness and aliveness while others may do so to remedy sexual or emotional needs that are not being met in their current relationship."
If you're confused about the difference between open relationships, poly relationships, and swinging, Baldwin explains that an "open relationship" is a bit of an umbrella term. "It can encompass everything from purely sexual no-strings-attached experiences with multiple people to dating and/or deeper connections," she points out. Open relationships focus on satisfying each person's individualistic needs, while swinging is a "team effort." Polyamory is all about developing relationships with other people outside of your primary partnership, says Baldwin. "It is less casual and more about love or connection, often resulting in multiple loving relationships, and even multiple committed partners." If any of these are options that you'd like to try it's important to have a respectful and open conversation with your partner. "Things become a bit more complex when we allow more people into our intimate, energetic space," adds Baldwin. Sarah Melancon, Ph.D., a clinical sexologist and sexuality and relationships expert for SexToyCollective.com also highlights the importance of safe sex practices including condoms, dental dams, and birth control. She adds that regular STI testing is necessary for anyone engaging in sexual activity with multiple partners.